[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/ty-afla-si-ale-co-tvoji-kamarati\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/ty-afla-si-ale-co-tvoji-kamarati\/","headline":"Ty Afla si, ale \u010do tvoji kamar\u00e1ti?","name":"Ty Afla si, ale \u010do tvoji kamar\u00e1ti?","description":"Mo\u017eno si iba b\u00fat\u013eav\u00e1 v\u0155ba, alebo strom vo vetre ktor\u00fd sa l\u00e1me a l\u00e1me k\u00fdm nie je na k\u00fasky. A mo\u017eno prav\u00fd opak. Si Ma\u010do, si p\u00e1n, si Alfa, no skr\u00e1tka ak nakr\u00e1\u010das do baru nohavi\u010dky id\u00fa hne\u010f dole, a ani na chat-e sa ti nest\u00e1va aby ti nejak\u00e1 \u017eena neodp\u00edsala. Ale tvoji kamar\u00e1ti? No...<p class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/ty-afla-si-ale-co-tvoji-kamarati\/\" class=\"more-link\">Pre\u010d\u00edta\u0165<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Ty Afla si, ale \u010do tvoji kamar\u00e1ti?&rdquo;<\/span> &raquo;<\/a><\/p>","datePublished":"2019-12-12","dateModified":"2023-04-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06eaac2906ebd8f5abb4917f3140de1503ec690466d6a69c4ec202bf5b15537c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/06eaac2906ebd8f5abb4917f3140de1503ec690466d6a69c4ec202bf5b15537c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"lienkalenka.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a309125_w16817_t1577640742.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a309125_w16817_t1577640742.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/ty-afla-si-ale-co-tvoji-kamarati\/","about":["Mu\u017ei"],"wordCount":633,"articleBody":"Mo\u017eno si iba b\u00fat\u013eav\u00e1 v\u0155ba, alebo strom vo vetre ktor\u00fd sa l\u00e1me a l\u00e1me k\u00fdm nie je na k\u00fasky. A mo\u017eno prav\u00fd opak. Si Ma\u010do, si p\u00e1n, si Alfa, no skr\u00e1tka ak nakr\u00e1\u010das do baru nohavi\u010dky id\u00fa hne\u010f dole, a ani na chat-e sa ti nest\u00e1va aby ti nejak\u00e1 \u017eena neodp\u00edsala. Ale tvoji kamar\u00e1ti? No povedzme \u017ee presn\u00fd opak, ale s\u00fa to tvoji kamar\u00e1ti a ty im chce\u0161 pom\u00f4c\u0165. Tu ale nast\u00e1va v\u00e1\u017eny probl\u00e9m preto\u017ee \u0165a u\u017e v\u00e1\u017ene ni\u010d \u010fal\u0161ie nenapad\u00e1 ako by si im pomohol udr\u017ea\u0165 konverz\u00e1ciu na soci\u00e1lnej sieti. Ni\u010d sa neboj chlap\u010de. Nie si v tom s\u00e1m, si tu spr\u00e1vne a preto \u010d\u00edtaj pozorne \u010falej.\u00a0\u010cas\u0165 prv\u00e1: Neopakuj po sebe.\u00a0Opakovanie je matka m\u00fadrosti, a zopakova\u0165 si niektor\u00e9 udalosti alebo vies\u0165 podobn\u00fdm \u0161t\u00fdlom konverz\u00e1ciu nie je na \u0161kodu. No v\u0161etko m\u00e1 svoju hranicu a je treba vedie\u0165 kedy presta\u0165 a zmeni\u0165 t\u00e9mu.\u00a0\u010cas\u0165 druh\u00e1: Chlap si ty, tak sa tak spr\u00e1vaj.\u00a0Na \u00favod ti polo\u017e\u00edm ot\u00e1zku. Kto je tu ten kto nos\u00ed nohavice, ty alebo ona? Mysl\u00edm to obrazne. Ak m\u00e1 na sebe obtiahnut\u00e9 leg\u00edny, je jasn\u00e9 \u017ee na tom ni\u010d meni\u0165 nechce\u0161. No je nad slnko jasn\u00e9 ako znela ot\u00e1zka. A v takom duchu by sa mala, by si mal vies\u0165 konverz\u00e1ciu. Da\u0165 jej priestor na vyjadrenie, alebo hraj sa s \u0148ou, nech aj ona nie\u010do navrhne. No st\u00e1le osta\u0148 p\u00e1nom situ\u00e1cie.\u00a0\u00a0\u010cas\u0165 tretia: Nepozeraj to\u013eko krimin\u00e1lky.\u00a0Lep\u0161ie povedan\u00e9, rovno sa jej m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 sp\u00fdta\u0165 na \u010d\u00edslo ob\u010dianskeho preukazu, kde b\u00fdva a kde bola 12, j\u00fala 2018 o tretej poobede. U\u017e ch\u00e1pe\u0161, kamar\u00e1t? Toto je konverz\u00e1cia a nie v\u00fdsluch! M\u00e1te sa spolu bavi\u0165 na r\u00f4zne t\u00e9my, popr\u00edpade o jednej dvoch zauj\u00edmav\u00fdch, tak aby nadobudla pocit \u017ee sa pozn\u00e1te u\u017e dlh\u0161ie. A va\u0161e stretnutie nebola ot\u00e1zka typu nechce\u0161 sa stretn\u00fa\u0165, ale kedy sa \u201cznova\u201c uvid\u00edme?\u00a0\u00a0\u010cas\u0165 tretia: Prep\u00e1\u010d\u2026\u00a0\u010co doda\u0165, ak to poserie\u0161 tak je spr\u00e1vne a vy\u017eaduje sa aby sa ospravedlnil ka\u017ed\u00fd. No ospravedl\u0148ova\u0165 sa za ka\u017ed\u00e9 druh\u00e9 slovo ale nar\u00e1\u017eku ktor\u00e1 nevyp\u00e1lila tak ako mala? To jej rovno m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 za ka\u017ed\u00fdm ke\u010f jej bude\u0161 p\u00edsa\u0165 rovno hne\u010f na \u00favod namiesto ahoj. Nap\u00edsa\u0165 nie\u010do ako \u201eneotravujem?, m\u00e1\u0161 \u010das?, prep\u00e1\u010d m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 teraz?\u201c Sakra, utekaj na WC a skontroluj \u010di si e\u0161te chlap, preto\u017ee tu slova v\u00e1\u017ene nesta\u010dia.\u00a0\u010cas\u0165 \u0161tvrt\u00e1: Je \u010das, stretn\u00fa\u0165 sa.\u00a0Bl\u00ed\u017ei sa cie\u013eov\u00e1 rovina kamar\u00e1t. Je \u010das kedy by si mal v\u00e1\u017ene porozm\u00fd\u0161la\u0165 ktor\u00fd z podnikov kam r\u00e1d chod\u00ed\u0161 je ten prav\u00fd a kam by ste \u0161li potom. Najlep\u0161ie ak by po ceste domov bola \u010disto n\u00e1hodou nejak\u00e1 vyhliadka na mesto alebo podobn\u00e9 miesto kde sa viete na chv\u00ed\u013eu zastavi\u0165. Ve\u010f najes\u0165 sa mohla aj doma, a vypi\u0165 mohla \u00eds\u0165 von s kamar\u00e1tkami. A tam by istotne niekoho zauj\u00edmav\u00e9ho spoznala. Tak to rozhodne neposer a dr\u017e sa toho \u010do \u0165a priviedlo a\u017e sem. Preto\u017ee tu sranda kon\u010d\u00ed, a a\u017e teraz sa uk\u00e1\u017ee \u010di si \u0165a napokon nezablokuje.\u00a0\u00a0\u010cas\u0165 piata: Tak kde to potom viazne?\u00a0Spravil si \u010do si mal, neur\u00e1\u017eal si ju, dokonca si sa nepovy\u0161oval, ke\u010f bolo nutn\u00e9 bol si romantik alebo ten nekompromisn\u00fd a z\u00e1sadov\u00fd chlap z ktor\u00e9ho \u017eeny \u0161alej\u00fa. A \u2026 a ni\u010d.Ni\u010d si z toho nerob. Skr\u00e1tka nebola t\u00e1 pr\u00e1va. Ni\u010d viac za t\u00fdm neh\u013eadaj.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ty Afla si, ale \u010do tvoji kamar\u00e1ti?","item":"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/ty-afla-si-ale-co-tvoji-kamarati\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]