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P\u00fdtame sa pre\u010do, hoci postupom \u010dasu sa st\u00e1vame \u010ditate\u013eom identick\u00e9ho...<p class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lienkalenka.sk\/deti-dnesneho-storocia-ma-na-tom-vsetkom-podiel-domov\/\" class=\"more-link\">Pre\u010d\u00edta\u0165<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Deti dne\u0161n\u00e9ho storo\u010dia. 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P\u00fdtame sa, pre\u010do skupina adolescentov skr\u00fdva pod dlh\u00fdmi ruk\u00e1vmi krvav\u00e9 stopy po \u010depeli, hoci im zdanlivo k \u017eivotu ni\u010d nech\u00fdba. P\u00fdtame sa pre\u010do, hoci postupom \u010dasu sa st\u00e1vame \u010ditate\u013eom identick\u00e9ho pr\u00edbehu i my sami.\u00a0Nikdy predt\u00fdm nebolo k dispoz\u00edcii detsk\u00fdm o\u010diam to\u013eko n\u00e1silia, ako je tomu dnes. Nikdy predt\u00fdm sa die\u0165a nepok\u00fa\u0161alo zauja\u0165 miesto sudcu pri vz\u00e1jomn\u00fdch obvineniach jeho matky namieren\u00fdm vo\u010di otcovi; nikdy predt\u00fdm sa mu rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 duo nerozkrajovalo pred jeho \u017eia\u013eom nasiaknutou tv\u00e1rou a nikdy predt\u00fdm nebolo n\u00faten\u00e9 zvoli\u0165 si. V\u00fdber. \u00c1no, excelentn\u00fd v\u00fdber spo\u010d\u00edvaj\u00faci v mo\u017enosti \u201ebu\u010f mama, alebo otec\u201c. \u00a0Die\u0165a je zbaven\u00e9 ide\u00e1lov. Do sveta sa vn\u00e1ra s \u00factyhodnou skladbou sk\u00fasenost\u00ed, paletou nev\u0161edn\u00fdch z\u00e1\u017eitkov, ktor\u00e9 sa dnes v jeho pam\u00e4ti rozp\u00ednaj\u00fa v podobe drastick\u00fdch spomienok. Krik matky, jej n\u00e1sledn\u00fd pla\u010d a ubit\u00e1 tv\u00e1r otca, ktor\u00fd nevie pom\u00f4c\u0165 ani len sebe. Jedna zo sc\u00e9n rodinnej idylky.\u00a0Deje sa to \u010dasto. Mo\u017eno \u010dastej\u0161ie, akoby mal domov zabezpe\u010dova\u0165.\u00a0Protagonisti, ktor\u00ed formuj\u00fa rodinn\u00fd \u017eivot do decentn\u00fdch odtienkov boja kv\u00f4li r\u00f4znorodej \u0161k\u00e1le pr\u00ed\u010din, si zrejme \u010dastokr\u00e1t neuvedomuj\u00fa vplyv p\u00f4sobiaci na ich nasledovn\u00edkov. Pre\u010do? Nemo\u017eno mi neskon\u0161tatova\u0165, \u017ee problematika, ktor\u00e1 je ban\u00e1lne zasaden\u00e1 do rozmedzia domovov a rod\u00edn, a e\u0161te ban\u00e1lnej\u0161ie komentovan\u00e1 pri poh\u013eade na die\u0165a, ktor\u00e9 sa stalo (ne)dobrovo\u013enou obe\u0165ou antisoci\u00e1lneho \u017eivota \u2013 poh\u013eadom pripnut\u00fdm k digit\u00e1lnej obrazovke, m\u00e1 v skuto\u010dnosti grandi\u00f3zne spojenie so syst\u00e9mom, v ktorom sa cel\u00e9 to na\u0161e existenci\u00e1lne t\u00e1panie odohr\u00e1va. Demokracia vyformovala z \u013eud\u00ed sebcov. Egoistick\u00ed jedinci vstupuj\u00fa do man\u017eelsk\u00fdch zv\u00e4zkov, aby sa n\u00e1sledne ujali svojej prim\u00e1rnej \u00falohy: splodi\u0165 potomstvo. No ako im mo\u017eno koexistova\u0165 s tou minim\u00e1lnou snahou o poznanie snov a t\u00fa\u017eob toho druh\u00e9ho? Toleranciu nahradila bezpodmiene\u010dn\u00e1 sebal\u00e1ska.\u00a0Domov sa stal schr\u00e1nkou probl\u00e9mov, do ktorej mlad\u00ed \u013eudia vkladaj\u00fa svoje osobn\u00e9 postrehy a v\u00fdpovede, a to v\u0161etko s cie\u013eom vies\u0165 demokratick\u00fd typ v\u00fdchovy, ktor\u00fd zn\u00e1zor\u0148uje ich osobn\u00fd \u017eivot a doklad\u00e1 ho ako d\u00f4kaz spolo\u010dnej existencie zmyslov\u00fdm org\u00e1nom ich potomka. Die\u0165a, uv\u00e4znen\u00e1 s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 bytu zmietaj\u00faceho sa v pekle, sa na rozdiel od jeho predkov nem\u00e1 kam schova\u0165. Mest\u00e1 s\u00fa zastavan\u00e9, zelen\u00e9 a vo\u013en\u00e9 priestranstv\u00e1 len raritou. Prirodzen\u00e1 vo\u013enos\u0165 d\u00fdchaj\u00faca na krk die\u0165a\u0165a je potla\u010den\u00e1 do sf\u00e9ry nepoznania.\u00a0Pocit slobody, o ktor\u00fd sme sa tak jednohlasne bili, nebadane prer\u00e1stol a\u017e do \u010d\u00edrej neschopnosti s \u0148ou vhodne nar\u00e1ba\u0165. Novodob\u00e9 p\u00e1ry si slovne p\u013euj\u00fa do tv\u00e1r\u00ed, slobodn\u00fd spev det\u00ed je nahraden\u00fd ru\u0161iv\u00fdm tokom mesta a srdce mlad\u00e9ho n\u00e1\u010deln\u00edka sa st\u00e1va \u010dasovanou bombou, ktor\u00e1 sa ka\u017ed\u00fdm d\u0148om pribli\u017euje k jasnej expl\u00f3zii. Konflikty doma eskaluj\u00fa a die\u0165a si prip\u00edna odznak toho, kto sa ich m\u00e1 pok\u00fasi\u0165 vyrie\u0161i\u0165. \u201eZanedbate\u013en\u00e1\u201c s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 detsk\u00fdch rokov, no nie?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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